I have a dilema. Girl or the kz??

RetroRiceRocketRider wrote:

Hi Guys~
It's the Warden (r4's other half). Lemme tell ya'... dump her. Period.. Never, under any circumstances let someone get away with calling your motorcycle stupid~(them's fightin' words!)First of all, she obviously has no clue how awesome it is to be able to ride, and to have great friends that you can share that passion with. Sounds like a hard-core case of old-fashioned jealously to me. Not to mention the fact that she doesn't have that certain piece of paper that says she can make those types of comments/demands. If she can't accept you for who you are & what you love doing, motorcycles & all, she's not worth loanin' a helmet to. You'll find way better than that, I'm sure of it. She's not the last piece, (oh, excuse me), I mean female on earth that has whatever it is that caught your eye in the first place. When you do find that special one, you'll never look back...( except maybe to make sure that ball bearing you flicked hit it's mark cuz some yahoo cut you off...)LOL
"Nuff said~
Rose aka Warden

your a lucky,lucky man chris.



sounds like you got yourself a first class control freak there oldkaw.

i'm not going to give you any advice because i'm about the last person you should listen to.
all i'll say is your decision will dictate the rest of your life whether your whipped or your own man.

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Three time loser here, and I'll tell you that the single life has a whole lot going for it. Dump her fast and wait till the right one comes along.

Course the fact that I am 57 may have something to do with my attitude

If she's not willing to compromise, tell her to pound pavement. If it wasn't the motorcycle, it would be something else. Your boat, your dog, your truck, your affinity for those little "Homies" dolls. They always find SOMETHING to harp on and on about when they're really upset about something different altogether.

You two have to be on the same page or it will never work!

do you really want us to answer this for ya?ah what the hell post her e-mail adress and mailing address and we will send her a one way ticket to siberia for ya!dont thank us,we're all in this together!we're pullin for ya!:laugh:

I confered with my buddy Buzzy , And he said to tell you , Get rid of her or tell her its a package deal you and your hobbie or take a walk, he said she sounds a lot like the Queen in his old hive bossing around the workers and she wasn't worth the settlings in the bottom of his glass!

Sandy wrote:

RetroRiceRocketRider wrote:

There ARE women out there that fit this image.
Trust me, I finally found and married one.

On Roses' shit-list again,eh!
You must have been REAL bad!:laugh:



On topic...dump the broad!:ohmy:

Nope (not yet anyway).
I figure I'm going to screw up and do something stupid someday, so I'm just building up some "good boy" points to cover my a$$ when that happens. :laugh:

Read,understood,and banked,Chris.

I could learn from you...please tell this grasshopper more!...wax on,wax off!:laugh:

I would have to say dump her. But since you actually have to ask the question of bike or girl there must be something you really like about her. So instead convince her to go for a ride with you. Tell her if she rides with you and still doesn't want you to restore it then you won't (which is a blatant lie of course, if she still doesn't want you to then definitely dump her.) But maybe if she can see what you see in it then she will come around. try relating it back to something personal of hers in a nice metaphorical way. Something that she does or loves that could be considered selfish. If all else fails then ditch her. You can't give up the bike though. It won't cheat on you, won't tell you what to do, and doesn't want to cuddle after you ride it hard.

Well, it is just the beginning...first it is "the bike is stupid" then pretty soon "it's the bike or me" then you'll be bikeless, then she leaves you because she's still unhappy with you (ultimately it is herself she is unhappy with)...and you'll be standing there w/out girlfriend/wife or the bike...she moves on and your life is changed forever...I speak from a position of strength:)

It is a difficult decision and I fully expect your heart or gonads to make a poor choice...but that's okay...there are other bikes and other partners out there...I'm on my third wife...but I'm getting better at recognizing humans (the first two were humanoid but were hatched, not born).

show her some Z1's on ebay. Maybe she will understand.