If you check out my thread about starting issues and also a thread linked by Biquetoast who replied in there, you'll see pics of our starter clutches.
In my case, the clutch was fine, and I have that grinding sound when I try to start my bike cold. But after doing the wired gorge ignition mod, new plugs, caps, some seafoam through the tank a couple times, and giving the throttle some gas when I start, it starts right up.
I don't sit there with the button on the whole time, I just flick the button and give the grip a quick twist as I hit it. If it doesn't start within a few tries, I get up on the kicker, treat it like it's flooded and pull on the throttle, and it usually starts up with one or two kicks.
But I know I still need to do a thorough tune up and hopefully it goes better after that. The wife won't let me drop anymore money into it now that it's running fairly well as is.
In fact yesterday I tried to get it to make the sound for my brother so he could hear it, and I couldn't get the bike to NOT start right up first try using the electric.